Sub Corner

One person struggle is another person’s accomplishment ~Lovlee Donald

For many of us Baby Girls out here, who happen to be submissive; can have a very hard time loving and thinking about ourselves first! Many of us don’t know how or even want stay in submission in some form 24/7. For many of us it can make us physically sick, knowing that there are duties to be met but they aren’t able to get done whether it's because we need to take a break to love & think of ourselves or not. It can and will be very difficult for many of us, so dealing with a baby girl keep it in your remembrance it's how our brains are set up & is based on how we look at our own submission!

I so understand this dilemma first hand. There have been many times when I have to think of myself first by sleeping an extra hour or two because I took pain medicine. One would think, what is the problem with that? Just sleep the extra one or two hours, but what most don't understand is when I see... my house, my other half, my children/family, my duties as a sub are in need, I tend to put myself last! Yep I found myself once again putting them first! This has always been an issue for many, but what you don't realize is for me thinking of myself first can sometimes physically hurt me! My emotions will cause my anxiety to increase so rapidly that it increases my physical pain ( I already suffer from chronic pain due to fibromyalgia). This is a glimpse in my world of the struggle of being a baby girl who happens to be submissive.

Many baby girls like myself look for instruction, even if/when that instruction is for us to take care of ourselves first. With me knowing this and understanding this firsthand I've been doing some research with some tips & suggestions on how baby girls like us who happen to be submissive are able to learn to love & take care of ourselves. Now with speaking to some Doms & submissives of all different spectrums & cultures we all agree these steps that this particular Daddy EthanAngeleo has posted Will help for when thinking about taking care of your baby girl side as well as your submissive side.

For 2019 I would like to celebrate Submissives of all spectrums but especially Baby Girls! (if you or know someone who would like to be featured this year hit me up) I will be posting; goals, tips and ways to show us all how to love ourselves more! To help remind us that there is no shame knowing we will only be complete when we are rested, level headed, & relaxed in our spirit. The affirmations that are posted will touch the deep spirit & soul of baby girl’s & lil’s like. To put yourself first can be a struggles at the beginning, it might feel like it’s too hard to achieve, but if you keep at it putting these into action every day hopefully there will be less struggles in the future. Working everyday to see & feel what you bring to your own world/life will help you to be a complete & happy submissive baby girl.

We can learn from each other, we can support each other through the struggles of putting ourselves first, we can/will help educate that being a POC baby girl is not a weakness but is an actual strength that many POC women have forgotten over the years. "There is strength & power in your submission" Never forget that! Use these questions to understand your struggles when it comes to loving yourself as a submissive/little. They will also help you to love yourself & grow in your journey.