Sub Corner

One person struggle is another person’s accomplishment ~BP

For many of us Baby Girls out here, who happen to be submissive; can have a very hard time loving and thinking about ourselves first! Many of us don’t know how or even want stay in submission in some form 24/7. For many of us it can make us physically sick, knowing that there are duties to be met and they aren’t able to be done (whether we need to take a break to love and think of ourselves or not) first can and will be very difficult for many of us baby girls to deal with it's how our brains are set up and how we look at our own submission!

I so understand this dilemma first hand. There have been times when I have to think of myself first by sleeping an extra hour or two because I took pain medicine. One would think, what is the problem with that just sleep the extra one or two hours, but when I see my house, my man, my children, my family, my duties are needing, I tend to put myself last and find I have once again put them first! For me thinking of myself first can physically hurt me! My emotions will cause my anxiety to increase so rapidly that it increases my physical pain (and I already suffer from chronic pain due to fibromyalgia). This is a glimpse in my world of the struggle of being a baby girl who happens to be submissive.

Many baby girls like myself look for instruction, even if/when that instruction is for us to take care of ourselves. With me knowing this and understanding this firsthand I have done some research some pointers as you may call it some tips and suggestions on how baby girls like us who happen to be submissive are able to learn to love and take care of ourselves. I’ve spoken to Dom’s of all different spectrums, I’ve talking to submissive that have submitted to many different Doms and cultures we all agree these steps that this particular Daddy EthanAngeleo Will help for when thinking about taking care of your baby girl side as well as your submissive side.

For the next few weeks/months I will be posting; goals, tips and ways to show us how to love ourselves more! To help remind us that we will only be complete if we are rested, level headed, and relaxed in our spirit. I will be posting affirmations that touch the deep spirit and soul of baby girl’s and lil’s like. We can learn from each other, we can support each other through the struggles of putting ourselves first, we can help educate that being a POC baby girl is not a weakness but an actual strength that many POC women have forgotten over the years. "There is strength & power in your submission" Never forget that! To put yourself first can be a struggles at the beginning, and might feel it’s too hard to achieve, but if you keep at it putting these into action hopefully you will have less struggles in the future. Working everyday to see and feel what you bring to your own world and life will help you to be a complete and happy submissive baby girl.

Use these questions to understand your struggles when it comes to loving yourself as a submissive/little. They will also help you to love yourself and grow in your journey.